Nafisa Abubakar, an SS3 student at NTIC Abuja Girls, shares a raw and emotional journey from being the “golden child” to receiving her first ever F—and how it completely changed her. In this deeply personal TEDx talk, she walks us through the shock, the tears, the shame, and ultimately, the redemption. Through failure, Nafisa discovered discipline, resilience, and a love for learning that grades alone could never teach. With honesty and courage, she reminds us that sometimes, falling apart is the beginning of becoming your best self. Her story is a powerful message to every young person who feels lost: You can come back. Stronger. Nafisa is a brilliant speaker with a strong passion for reading, public speaking, and leadership. She is in her final year of secondary school and hopes to become an influential figure in the world. Her passion and courage have helped her navigate the tough selection stages, proving her resilience and determination. Readiness: Very prepared. Her confidence and drive make her a formidable speaker, and we believe she will excel on the TEDx stage. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx