Capt. Jaison explores the profound journey of self-awareness and the art of shaping the identity we adopt. Drawing from personal experiences and shared wisdom, he delves into the importance of understanding who we are at our core and how we respond to the world around us. He challenges us to reflect on our needs versus wants, urging us to learn from both triumphs and trials. With a focus on authenticity and adaptability, his talk inspires viewers to embrace growth, navigate life's complexities, and craft a purposeful narrative rooted in self-awareness and conscious choices. At just 22, Captain Jaison Thomas earned the title of Captain for his valor during the Kargil War, embodying his philosophy: "Kuch pane ke liye kuch khona zaroori nahi, karna zaroori hai" – Success requires action, not loss. Recognized at 18 with the Best Salesman Award, his true calling was serving the nation. After six years in the Indian Army, displaying courage, leadership, and discipline, he transitioned to empowering individuals through his experiences.Today, Captain Thomas is a motivational speaker, life coach, and choreographer, specializing in Teachers Training, Soft Skills, Faculty Development, and Student Training. He founded Incisive, Speak N Style, and Lords International School, focusing on personality development and nurturing young minds. With 15 years of expertise, he has transformed over 6,000 students and trained 1 lakh teachers and employees from 50+ multinational companies, inspiring them to break limits and achieve excellence.At just 22, Captain Jaison Thomas earned the title of Captain for his valor during the Kargil War, embodying his philosophy: "Kuch pane ke liye kuch khona zaroori nahi, karna zaroori hai" – Success requires action, not loss. Recognized at 18 with the Best Salesman Award, his true calling was serving the nation. After six years in the Indian Army, displaying courage, leadership, and discipline, he transitioned to empowering individuals through his experiences.Today, Captain Thomas is a motivational speaker, life coach, and choreographer, specializing in Teachers Training, Soft Skills, Faculty Development, and Student Training. He founded Incisive, Speak N Style, and Lords International School, focusing on personality development and nurturing young minds. With 15 years of expertise, he has transformed over 6,000 students and trained 1 lakh teachers and employees from 50+ multinational companies, inspiring them to break limits and achieve excellence. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx