In this thought-provoking TEDxYouth talk, Mila challenges the common belief that selfishness is inherently negative. With maturity and insight, they explore how setting boundaries, prioritizing mental health, and choosing self-care can actually lead to stronger relationships, greater resilience, and a more authentic life. This powerful perspective invites us to rethink what it truly means to take care of ourselves—and why that might be the most generous thing we can do. Mila Ziller is a 15-year-old girl with a multifaceted passion for music, performing arts, and leadership. As the Inclusion Ambassador on her school’s student council, she dedicates her time to fostering inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. Her commitment to empathy, equality, and connection reflects her belief that true leadership begins with uplifting others. A dynamic and creative individual, she thrives on opportunities to inspire meaningful change and build strong communities.
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