A Mother's Dream, Morris College, and a Desire To Help Others | Henry Darby | TEDxLady Street ED
What happens when a mother’s dream becomes the compass for her child’s future? In this inspiring TED Talk, Mr. Henry Darby shares a deeply personal journey rooted in love, legacy, and purpose. From the nurturing values instilled at home to transformative experiences at Morris College, Mr. Darby reflects on how education and community shaped a life committed to service. This talk is a tribute to the power of dreams passed down through generations—and how they blossom into a lifelong desire to uplift others. Mr. Henry Darby, principal at North Charleston High School, is the epitome of selfless dedication to his community. In 2020, after realizing many of the students in his school were struggling financially, with some sleeping under bridges or in their cars, he decided to do something about it. Mr. Darby applied to get a part-time job at Walmart, working from 10 pm to 7 am three days a week, just so he could donate his pay to his students.
His actions have led to the community donating almost $100,000 to the school, and Walmart has donated an additional $50,000. Mr. Darby says "I was taught if your hands find something to do, do it. So I came to myself and said, 'Perhaps I need another job in terms of part-time.’”
Mr. Darby holds a Bachelor’s and two Master’s Degrees and has served in education for over 40 years, but it is his humility and genuine love for the children he serves that make him an excellent leader.
In addition to his other accolades, he is the author of numerous books. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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