The Myth of the Single Life Calling | Mina Obeten | TEDxMaitama Women
In this empowering and perspective-shifting talk, Mina Obeten dismantles the long-held myth that you must choose just one path, one passion, or one profession to live a meaningful life. With eloquence, authenticity, and a rich tapestry of real-life experience, Mina shares her journey as a lawyer, PR expert, media innovator, and purpose-driven leader—proving that a life of multidimensional impact is not only possible but deeply fulfilling.Rooted in her belief that humans are not meant to be one thing forever, Mina invites us to embrace the beauty of “and”—to live boldly in the intersections of our gifts, passions, and callings. She challenges societal expectations that push people, especially women, to fit neatly into one box, offering instead a liberating framework for crafting a life that reflects all of who you are.Through poignant storytelling and hard-earned wisdom, Mina shares how her journey through law, branding, technology, and community building taught her to stop asking “which one?” and start saying “why not all?” She reveals how embracing her multifaceted identity empowered her to create transformational platforms like E-Lawyer Nigeria, which has impacted over 260,000 legal professionals, and The Amazon Tribe, a growing community that helps women find clarity, connection, and courage.As the founder of M&H Consults, Mina also brings a unique lens on branding and strategy—leading over 100 vision boarding and corporate bonding sessions that have helped individuals and organizations align with their highest potential.With passion and precision, Mina delivers a call to action for anyone who has ever felt torn between passions or pressured to pick one path: You don’t have to shrink to fit someone else’s definition of purpose. You get to define success on your terms.Mina Obeten is living proof that you can be many things—and do them all well. Her talk is a powerful declaration that life isn’t about choosing a lane; it’s about building a highway that leads to impact, joy, and wholeness. Mina Obeten is a lawyer, public relations professional, and media & tech disruptor. She is the founder of E lawyer Nigeria, M&H Consults, and The Amazon TribeThrough E-Lawyer Nigeria, she has leveraged technology to impact over 260,000 legal professionals, advancing career growth in the legal industry. Her work in M&H Consults focuses on personal and corporate branding, helping professionals and organizations achieve visibility, profitability, and market leadership. She specializes in vision boarding and corporate bonding sessions, having facilitated over 100 transformative workshops to enhance clarity, goal setting, and team collaboration.Her passion for women’s empowerment led her to establish The Amazon Tribe, a 2,000+ member community that helps women find clarity, build support systems, and thrive. The community has hosted vision boarding events in major Nigerian cities like Lagos, Abuja, and Calabar. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
More from TED
- 13:05The Most Lasting Happy Pill | Marcelle Shaker | TEDxAIS Ajaltoun YouthFrom a young age, Marcelle has been captivated by the way our minds are wired — how we think, react, and perceive the world differently. Through her love of psychology, she discovered how mastering our thoughts can transform our lives, bringing peace even in the toughest moments.Now, as a passionate 12th grader, she’s ready to share with you the simple yet powerful mindset that helped her find joy in places she once dreaded — and how you can, too! Peace, clarity, and a new way of seeing life are just one talk away. 12th year student at AIS who is obsessed with psychology. She is mesmerized by how humans were created. She seeks peace in all she does. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
- 15:50The Matrix of the K-12 Education System in Lebanon | Carel Tayeh | TEDxAIS Ajaltoun YouthCarell Tayeh takes us deep into “The Matrix of the K-12 Education System” — a bold exploration of how traditional schooling shapes minds, limits creativity, and reinforces outdated structures.Through a sharp, thought-provoking lens, Carell challenges us to question the systems we’ve accepted and imagine an education that truly empowers students to thrive — not just comply. Student This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
- 10:25The Power of Going Solo | Ely Boulos | TEDxAIS Ajaltoun YouthThrough personal stories — including a defining Model United Nations experience — Ely challenges the belief that we need validation from others to make bold moves. She invites us to step beyond our comfort zones, embrace solitude, and discover how going solo can unlock true growth, deeper connections, and our highest potential. This TED talk explores the power of stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing the opportunity to go solo. I share personal experiences such as a Model United Nations conference, to challenge the idea that we need others to validate our choices. I hope to inspire the audience to break free from societal expectations and take bold steps on their own, showing how moments of solitude can lead to personal growth, stronger connections, and the achievement of our fullest potential. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
- 8:51Invisible Disabilities | Marita Dib & Ralph Sfeir | TEDxAIS Ajaltoun YouthThis talk describes Marita's trials with mysophobia, while Ralph shows how empathy can help people overcome all the obstacles they may face. AIS studentInvisible disabilities This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
- 9:57The Superpower of Your Worst Personality Trait | Clara Naoum | TEDxAIS Ajaltoun YouthIn "The Superpower of Your Worst Personality Trait," Clara challenges the idea that we need to constantly "fix" ourselves. Instead, she reveals how traits like stubbornness, anxiety, or impulsivity — the very things we’re often told are problems — can actually be our hidden superpowers.This talk is for anyone who's ever felt like they didn’t fit the mold. Come discover how embracing your "too much" could be the key to unlocking your full potential. I’m giving this talk because, for years, I thought my worst personality trait was something to fix until I realized it was my secret weapon. We spend so much time trying to “improve” ourselves that we miss the superpowers hiding in our so-called flaws. This talk is for anyone who’s ever been told they’re “too much” of something too stubborn, too anxious, too impulsive. What if that thing wasn’t a weakness but the key to your greatest strength? By the end of this talk, you’ll not only see yourself differently but also walk away with a new way to harness what you thought was holding you back." This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
- 8:10A New Approach To Work-Life Balance | Blessing Leonard | TEDxMaitama WomenIn this refreshing and transformative talk, Blessing Leonard unpacks what it truly means to pursue work-life balance in an ever-demanding world.Drawing from her personal experiences as a thriving entrepreneur, young mother, and purpose-driven leader, Blessing challenges the outdated ideals of balance that often leave women feeling overwhelmed, guilty, or stretched thin. Instead, she offers a more authentic, liberating, and intentional approach—one that prioritizes purpose, grace, and alignment over perfection.With deep empathy and striking clarity, Blessing takes us on a journey of redefining success—not as doing it all, but as living a life that reflects your values, your season, and your unique calling. She shares how, in the midst of motherhood, entrepreneurship, and spiritual growth, she found a rhythm that empowered her not just to survive, but to thrive.Today, Blessing Leonard is a guiding light for women around the world—proof that you don’t have to choose between purpose and peace, between ambition and motherhood. Her talk is a compelling invitation to embrace a new paradigm: one where life is not about balancing the impossible, but aligning with what truly matters. Blessing Leonard is a passionate and purpose-driven woman dedicated to helping women grow towards fulfilling their God-given purpose. Known for her resilience, optimism, passion and resourcefulness, she convenes The 20's Mum, a community of allied mothers seeking to rediscover their identity in motherhood. She also holds the position of the CEO and Lead Strategist, DBSL, a digital marketing agency that serves clients worldwide.She holds notable degrees and certifications in Business Administration (MBA), Logistics management, Business Analysis and Digital Marketing, from prestigious institutions.Coupled with her incredible expertise to maintain composure during chaos, and her proven track record of helping brands achieve excellence, she stands a valuable asset to any sphere she sets foot in. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx