Have you ever been asked, “What do you want to be?”—and your answer was, “I don’t know”? You’re not alone. In this raw, heartfelt, and deeply relatable talk, Eksha shares her journey from being clueless in college to becoming a national-level boxer, a model, and a police constable—all while navigating doubts, fears, and societal expectations. This isn’t a success story; it’s a search story—for everyone who feels lost, ordinary, or confused but still carries the quiet fire to be something unique. From punching through failures to standing tall in both uniforms and heels, Eksha’s message is powerful and clear: you don’t need to have it all figured out—you just need to keep showing up. Through her journey, you’ll discover why not knowing what you want can be your greatest gift, how to tackle self-doubt, fear of judgment, and feeling “not good enough,” and why your uniqueness, family, and inner drive matter. This talk is a testament to how manifestation, hard work, and emotion can change your life. Eksha Kerung is a multi-faceted police officer, model, athlete, and youth icon from Sombaria, West Sikkim. Currently serving as a Constable in the Sikkim Police’s Anti-Riot Unit, she exemplifies discipline and dedication. A state-level boxer and two-time national athlete, Eksha transitioned seamlessly into the world of fashion, winning Miss Sikkim 2018 and gaining national fame as a finalist in MTV’s Supermodel of the Year 2021. She further rose to prominence as the face of Maybelline New York in India. In 2024, she showcased her versatility by appearing in Warner Bros. Discovery’s Reality Ranis of the Jungle. Eksha’s journey from uniform to runway reflects the evolving role of women in modern India—breaking stereotypes and redefining success across multiple domains. Her story inspires countless young individuals to pursue their passions with resilience, courage, and purpose. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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