High School Survival Guide 101 | Fairy Ren | TEDxSMIC School Beijing
Fairy Ren, a junior at Beijing SMIC High School and their current Student Council President, takes the TEDx stage to share her personal guide to making the most of high school. Drawing from her experiences as a member of the volleyball team and student leader, she presents the audience with advice on building connections and embracing the vibrant opportunities these high school years would bring. A must-watch for students seeking inspiration to going through high school with confidence and joy!
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-Speaker bio: YiLin Ren is a dynamic high school student at SMIC High School, where she balances her roles as Student Council President, varsity volleyball player, and passionate scholar. With a love for math, finance, and linguistics, she finds joy in the logic of numbers, the thrill of the stock market, and the intricacies of language. As a natural leader, YiLin thrives on bringing people together, maximizing individual strengths, and turning plans into action. Off the court and out of the classroom, she channels her energy into volleyball, a sport she loves with all her heart. YiLin’s enthusiasm for leadership, teamwork, and learning drives her to make meaningful connections and inspire those around her. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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