From Ancient Wisdom to Modern Mastery | Rajeshwar Upadhyaya | TEDxEThames College
Why do people with average IQs outperform those with the highest IQs majority of the of the time? the answer lies in emotional intelligence. And unlike IQ, emotional intelligence is a choice and a discipline, not an innate quality bestowed upon the lucky. In this incisive and entertaining talk, Dr. Rajeshwar Upadhyaya talks about how leaders of the past and the current times used the power of emotional intelligence to thrive in environments characterised by high complexity and constant change. Empowering Leadership through Emotional Intelligence.
Raj, a luminary with 30 years of illustrious experience in Industry, Consulting, and Teaching, is distinguished by his profound expertise in Leadership Development and Emotional Intelligence.
As the visionary founder of Par Excellence and the esteemed Academy for Applied Emotional Intelligence (AAEI), Raj has trained professionals including entrepreneurs, igniting transformative change through cutting-edge Leadership Learning Programs.
With an unwavering commitment to nurturing potential, Raj employs global psychometric assessments such as EIRS, MHS EQI 2.0, IROP, Typology, ESQ, CRESEL PRO, and Change Readiness, to unlock hidden talents and ignite the spark of growth within individuals and organizations.
Embrace this extraordinary journey under Raj's enigmatic guidance and embark on an illuminating path to effective leadership and the transcendent power of Emotional Intelligence. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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