In Redefining Influence Through Encouragement, Tomi "The Encourager" shares a heartfelt journey rooted in her Nigerian heritage, mental health experiences, and the transformative power of everyday leadership. Through stories of figures like Iya Alate and a chance encounter with Ms. Suzie, Tomi illustrates how simple acts of encouragement can create safe spaces, ignite potential, and redefine what it means to lead. She introduces the “CAR” framework—Competing only with yourself, Authenticity, and Relationships—as the foundation for impactful leadership. This inspiring talk reminds us that to encourage is to empower, and that the true influencers of our time are those who lift others up. Tomi Mary Obideyi, MPH, CHES® is the founder and CEO of Tomi The Encourager, a heart-centered business committed to educating, elevating, and empowering individuals to embrace their most authentic selves. With over seven years of experience, she has inspired audiences through dynamic keynote presentations and evidence-based trainings for school districts, organizations, and companies. Her work addresses themes such as compassion fatigue, mental health, suicide prevention, DEI, servant leadership, and community engagement. Tomi’s passion for mental wellness is deeply rooted in her own journey. Through personalized coaching and peer support, she helps individuals navigate life transitions with confidence, whether stepping into leadership, shifting careers, or pursuing entrepreneurship. Her work centers on uplifting BIPOC communities, with a special focus on women of color, and fostering environments where resilience, self-care, and purpose thrive. Known for her warmth, wisdom, and energy, Tomi is driven by a simple but powerful mission: to ignite hope, cultivate courage, and empower people to rise. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx