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This presentation explores how the effects of bullying extend far beyond the moment of harm. The speaker explains how bullying can damage a person's self-esteem, mental health, and ability to trust others, often creating emotional scars that last into adulthood. These effects are not limited to the individual alone. They spread across classrooms, families, and communities, influencing how people interact and relate to one another. The talk calls for greater empathy, awareness, and accountability, urging both young people and adults to speak out, offer support, and help create safe environments. It is a powerful reminder that every action matters and that kindness can interrupt cycles of harm.Emiolorun Afolabi is a passionate learner and leader with a love for technology and mathematics. His journey began as an ICT Prefect in primary school, and he now excels academically at Oxbridge Tutorial College, aspiring to study Computer Engineering at a top university.Driven by his passion for teaching, he founded Monkey Maths, a YouTube channel that simplifies complex math concepts for learners worldwide.Beyond academics, he’s a skilled drummer, former school band member, and an athlete with track and field medals. As a proud member of Ivory Football Club, he values teamwork and fitness.In his free time, he enjoys gaming, spending time with friends, and exploring new interests. His future goals include expanding Monkey Maths and advancing in technology to make a lasting impact as a mentor, innovator, and leader. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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