Aili, an intimacy curator and relationship specialist, is redefining connection in India. From marketing to matchmaking, she delves into the world of Alternative Intimacy - where human bonds go beyond romance and sexuality. Through her journey, she explores how people navigate complex feelings & desires, creating safe spaces for self-discovery and community in a society still grappling with taboos. Aili is a sex, dating and intimacy coach, a relationship reinvention specialist and The Intimacy Curator. Her organization promotes self discovery through emotional and sexual wellbeing. She is trained in the Somatica method, a unique experiential learning done through touch, cuddling and intimacy role play. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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