How to Stop Feeling Lonely:An Astronaut’s Instant Shift to Belong | Shehzad Batliwala | TEDxRandburg
What if the freedom you’ve been chasing isn’t found in more achievements, but in a new way of seeing yourself—and the world? In this deeply personal talk, Dr. Shehz, an ophthalmologist and former NASA intern, reveals how an “astronaut’s perspective” can break the relentless cycle of seeking external validation. Drawing on his own journey—from living as an undocumented immigrant to pushing himself to the brink in pursuit of success—Dr. Shehz explores how cosmic insights (often called the “overview effect”) offer a sense of profound belonging here on Earth. By sharing practical steps for cultivating awe, reframing our mental “ceilings,” and shifting from self-doubt to self-discovery, Dr. Shehz illuminates a path toward true inner peace. This inspiring talk is for high achievers who feel disconnected or “never enough,” and for anyone ready to replace external approval with a genuine connection to life’s bigger picture. Dr. Shehz is an accomplished eye surgeon, entrepreneur, and motivational speaker dedicated to helping others find clarity—both in vision and in life. He blends expertise, empathy, and a dash of humor to remind us that belonging isn’t something you earn; it’s something you realize when you see yourself as part of the grand human tapestry. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn moreDr. Shehzad Batliwala, DO, is a first generation Indian-American ophthalmologist, entrepreneur, and advocate for personal growth and resilience. From navigating the challenges of growing up as an undocumented immigrant to family mental health issues, to founding a successful cell phone repair franchise, and breaking barriers in the medical field, Dr. Shehz’s journey is a testament to perseverance and self-discovery. His passion for space exploration and his commitment to inner peace and purpose drive his innovative approach to both medicine and life. Dr. Shehz is an active speaker and community servant, leveraging his diverse experiences to inspire others to embrace their unique journeys and find fulfillment beyond external validation. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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