What do you do when the world only sees you as one half of a pair? When your name is replaced with “the twins” and your individuality is constantly up for debate? In this heartfelt talk, Nkem shares the journey of growing up as a twin—and the quiet, determined quest to be seen for who she truly was. With honesty, humor, and vulnerability, she reflects on the challenges of being compared, the pressure to compete, and the silent struggle to break free from a shared identity. But beyond the labels and expectations lies a powerful story of self-discovery, resilience, and growth. This talk is a reminder that our worth isn’t found in how others define us, but in how we define ourselves. It’s about stepping into your own story, embracing your unique strengths, and knowing that you don’t have to outshine someone else to shine brightly on your own.Nkemdilim Annabel Akukwe is a dynamic Year 12 student, celebrated for her academic excellence, leadership, and unwavering passion for advocacy. A gifted artist and an avid reader of historical literature, she merges creativity with a deep understanding of the past to inspire change in the present. At Bloombreed Schools, Nkemdilim has distinguished herself as a formidable debater, known for her eloquence and sharp critical thinking. Her leadership roles reflect her dedication to fostering a supportive and inclusive community—she serves as the President of the Anti-Bullying Committee and Book Club, Red House Captain, Class Captain, and a member of the Student Representative Council. In her upcoming TEDx Talk, Nkemdilim will explore the balance between personal identity and collective influence. With aspirations to become a Public Health Director and activist, she is committed to amplifying the voices of the unheard and driving meaningful change in society. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx